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Top 36 Limits for BDSM Beginers

Top 36 Limits for BDSM Beginers

No peeing, no pooping, no bleeding for starters.It is the best line to keep.

I see BDSM as a game as far as I'm concerned. I don't like it to go too far in perverse practices. It can hurt, yes, I can like it, it can be violent, but I don't like the degradation of the other.

Nothing that will leave a bruise or draw blood - no close-hand strikes and only slapping on thighs, ass, or breasts. I don’t allow any kind of whips, paddles or other items so I guess my BDSM is pretty vanilla.

Top 36 Limits for BDSM Beginers

  • Sounding (placing thin stick-like objects into the penis hole. This includes flower stems, handheld fireworks, Pocky sticks, chopsticks, or pencils. -.-) No.
  • Animals (a lot of people like to request being blindfolded, smothered in peanut butter and have a hungry dog in the room. No.)
  • Consent is very important. No “let’s surprise my wife”, no “my boyfriend would love this surprise”, no “can you sit in the backseat of the car and strangle him with a scarf when I pick him up from work? He would love that surprise!” No.
  • Ungloved fingers up the bum. No. No. No.
  • To tie him up naked in a rectangle frame with his wrists and ankles tied to the corners of the frame, in his balcony, and for me to whip him. It has to be between 430pm-630pm because he wants the sun to set while it’s all happening
  • No scat
  • No watersports
  • No permanent marks without prior negotiation
  • No fire play
  • No blood play
  • No involving non-consenting people (for example, no public play in front of folks who haven’t consented to be part of BDSM)
  • No age play/little play
  • No AB/DL
  • No stinging nettles/wasabi lube
  • No forced fem
  • Retifism and bootblacking do nothing for me
  • Infibulation is right out

Top 36 Limits for BDSM Beginers

  • No animals
  • I’ve said this before, but it bears repeating: electrified blowgun darts are a big nope
  • Same for shock collars, crank generators, cattle prods, and tasers
  • No singletails…
  • Temperature play is a no-fly zone on me. That includes hot wax play and ice.
  • No waterboarding, O Manchester girlfriend of mine.
  • Nullification is and always will be a hard, non-negotiable no.
  • No sex betwixt me and other men. Sorry, guys.
  • No scatos or anything that might involve disgusting substances.
  • No mental degradation beyond basic insults.
  • No slow torture or patience games. I'm not patient.
  • No clothes pegs except at the nipples.
  • No needles, no blades. Nothing that stings or cuts.
  • No electric prods or any other such toys.
  • No infantilization.
  • Nothing that leaves permanent marks.
  • No permanent markers…
  • No weird stuff with cellophane or cow pumps that'll just make me laugh my ass off.
  • No dangerous medical practices

After all,Everyone has different limits generally, as well as specific limits for a particular method, so what is best is to agree on a safe word before a session

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